Is it a Virtue or not To be An Elder

Is being ‘An Elder’ considered a virtue or a sin by the Grown up? Is Wisdom considered to be as despair to admit? And is immaturity considered as a virtue in the time that we live in. We hardly have any one been called as An Elder. Or anyone is being proud to be called as An Elder now a days. If you by any means, address, An Elder, As an Elder. The addressee suddenly feels offended, and you get to sense that something you said was wrong!

In the past We spoke of our Elder's in our family greatly and considered them , to be very, unique people, the very title would mean that the person has had a lot of life experience to share, that will help to equip the young. We used to approach them for advice, an opinion, wishful thinking, because IT was understood that an Elder was in many way a Treasure Chest of information and knowledge

The Grownups nowadays, say that the respect to Grownups is diminishing day by day. Interesting! The Grownups have become very friendly than the grownups than yester years, and then tend be to be more of Children in approach and behavior than grownups. How is one supposed to find the difference between children and grownups nowadays if both appear to be the same?

It was suppose to be a virtue, in the olden times to call a grownup a wise person! , this would Portray his experience, his attained knowledge ,his approach to life’s task , and bring about a appearance of a well-groomed man or woman, in stature , speech and would tend to be well versed in lives mysteries , that a second person would find it in his best interest , to approach such a grownup , that he or she might learn from them . So that the ever ending saying of " Learn from your elders , " would not be a forced and pressed upon task but rather be a ,natural behavior in its self. If the Grownups would be more of Grownups they say that they appear to be.

People are feeling bad, in considering themselves to be grownups, people nowadays not only like to look young, which is a very good thing, and must be appreciated. But tend to sound Young , which at times can be annoying and very irritated when they do, in a matter of importance , and when quick action is required from them .

Seldom do we come to see a much groomed grownup, Groomed I mean not in appearance, but in approach, they are so few. That we tend to spot people like them. It is like spotting a signal giraffe in a heard of zebras.

Oh Dear! I hope the Real virtue of true Grownups do not tend to cease to Exit for ever! That the children now days might not come to a point in their lives that they do not know to act as a grownup, When they are expected to be one.
Or seized! to have anyone left to learn from.

If everyone, consider themselves as children.
Where would they go for grownups?
If everyone, consider themselves as pupils of life.
Where do they go, to ask for lives mysteries?

The response is often silenced, and one has no other ways but, goes out to find the answerers to ones questions on his own. Which is, at times very dangerous, and can even end up have strong consequences. Life is learned the harsh way, principals, morals, values and ethics appear to be mere fables to our ears. Because of lack of our grownup being Grownup, learning is done how one potteries his life, each going in his own ways, living the life in the way one finds to his description what is good and comfortable to him,

We all know the story of the 8 blind men who went to see an Elephant; each one had his own view, his own description. Not clear. Contradictory to ones view‘s, resulting to argument’s that never end.
But what if there was yet another blind man to guide these 8 blind men, they might have their views, but they would always remember the man that guided them, and in length of time agree to their Guide,

Eventually we all learn the principals of life in the hard way or self way, but if had Grownups to guide us along the ways, we would soon see the light of things and see that it is important to become a grownup for our children ,that they may be grownup for their own children in the future.
It is very important that The parcel is passed.Every time, and we must make sure we do not lose it's gift. in the process.
The Gift’s OF Wisdom.

Basic observable human psychology

Human is one of the wonders of god’s creation. A single person is in its totality is not even, one by virtue, but combined ingredient of several people. When a child is born in this world. The birth of a single identity is not the only thing that has happened. But the legacy of the ancestral trends is being brought to our eyes. And the possibility for a yet to be made legacy, is expected out of a 2 ounce life.

Science say that the mind of the person is an amazing computer, our mind is capable to record and learn 38 languages and be a master of them and speak them as it was our mother tong. Many times we take life as a simple breath of life. But this creation ‘the Human’ is simply a wonder in it self.

When a child is born, it responds to sound rather than sight, it is said that the voice recognition is a part of the child, even when the child is in the mother’s womb. It responds to the voice; sounds that the mother perceives in her environment and can even react to it. Medicine has not been able to tell, how? Is the mother capable to bring back a its child back to consciousness even under very strong sedatives and Anastasia. The child, in what ever age or in any stage life, recognizes its mother’s voice and responds to it even under subconscious state. This is simply a wonder in its self.

If we can teach a dog to stand and role and fetch a stick, I believe you can expect much more from an infant, except run, since the spinal development is very slow in human than animals. But let me bring your attention to a simple observation, if you have ever seen a kitten, it runs after and catches moving objects; same thing can be observed in infants when they start walking with their knees, you will notice that the child observes the moving object.

Let say your 3to5 month child is crying, and its not hungry; try folding and opening your fingers to it, you will see that that child observes it as it was a moving object, it does not understand that your finger movement has something to do with your writs, your arm, your shoulder or your brain, it only under stands the finger moving. And thinks that it has a life of its own, which appears to be a matter of grate fascination to the child and observes it with great curiosity

It is a wonder! That it was these simple instant, observation, that is even seen among great scientist in their early stages of their inventions or exploring worlds wonders.

The initial instant reaction to sound, movement, gives you an idea; of what the child is used to in its environment to the observes, if you are an observer.

Gradually and Slowly next the child starts to show a great an interest to bright colors, this interest is seen to stay in the child till adolescences , latter, dims, and later comes back to the person in old age. Children in infancy are very direct and open to emotions and thoughts, latter under the environment it is restricted or learns to control emotions like anger. Ext. but towards old age , we can notice, that these emotions service up in such a way that An observer might see more of a child in a 70 year old than a grown up. That could have been seen in that same person when he was in the 40 or even to his or hers 60s

This change of going back to the child, depends up on varies factors, you can not stop the process from happening but you can only slower down its phase. It is said that every one is suppose to have a hobby or engage in an activity. It is said that an idle mind is the devils workshop. You must not let the mind sleep off of what it is called as. .But if the minds start to sleep off, it will not want to wake up. Or would be difficult to bring back the person to a more controlled and conscious state as before.

Reading is a good exercise; I believe that by being alert and having your mind occupied in an activity that requires logical thought, ect might even slower the process of entering into alcimerces

If you notice early stages of alcimers condition in grownup , never lose hope, make them read books loudly. Not with their mind never by the mind , tell them to read as they are writing and to read loudly as loudly so that they can hear their voice and what they are reading. ask questions, make them tell you the dates of your anniversary, birthday dates, make them name the names of family member as often as possible, making them do simple math’s like addition, multiplication and logical thinking test questions can be very powerful tools ,it is like putting fertilizer to a plant. if you see them telling you about their childhood more than your life now, do not get angry. It is hard for them to remember. What happened? Two mints ago, because you must understand a small part of their mind is asleep. Our attempt should be to prolong the time for the rest of the mind to sleep off. It is an every day, journey, an every day learning and relearning for them, and so is it for us as well.

Remember, every life is a circular process, from childhood, to adolescences, to an adult and back to the child. Perhaps it was through this process that we developed the concepts of parental in stings, child and finally adult in stings in human behavior.