the TRUE conversion BY CHOICE

 

The I … an ownership , a possession of many accomplishments , a species of unlimited potentials, or a  meer covered sculpture of Gods creations .  Yet it is in this one creation that the shear of limits has no bounce .  

I : remaining the same with limitations and imperfections  often forget , or tend not to realize to implement the principles that he already has implement in academics and in area of achievement , not only in some . but in all aspects of life , yes the principle of Discipline . “ Self Discipline”

A man once said that ,true character is not what is not what is displayed in the open public in clusters of observable society , but Rather True Character is that side of a person that is reflected in the closed doors , in the dark , when we assume that no one is looking , Even the grate Preachers , might forget That “God “ Watches. For their personal indulgences. Knowing very well that God always watches .

Man sees the outward appearance , but God sees the inward , the inside of man ) the man in his true colour

The sprit of God is worthy to cleanse us ,  but what does man think of this “cleansing process”:   , Does  this given a license to go back into the disgusting mud and roll yourself every single time and go back again to God for the clensing as offtern as the process of like night following the day . 

Where is Man’s consciousness   ? where is his discipline here . does he not find it appropriate to utilize this principle in his conscious nature . 

All accomplishment  are attained by the principle of Self disciple . there is a saying in our society , that in-oder for a socity to improve that each individual must change . We might put this blame on others , for two reasons :

1-      Not having a roll module or

2-      Not having the  interest , of taking that intense effort and becoming  that model knowing very will that handwork brings results 

 Paul said that I wish to do  the Good this but yet I do the bad ,- :

 it clearly is understood that

 :-An action , what ever may be great or small require a effort of  some form or another weather good or bad which our choice of action , weather good or bad , 

 it is once choice of action to sit infront on the televisions or read a book of massive information. 

The television has no power nor part in putting the observer in its clutches , 

it the fully up to the observer to continue to be an observer on his or her choice .

 if Wordily Goles are achieved by principles of sheer self discipline is not applicable for our spiritual growth . in a way , The concept like 

 Prioritized life

Principled lifestyle  

Structured life ,

Are meer practical result of the  implication of:  self Discipline in life  .

Daniel chose to pray God  3 times :  King David chose to praise God .  Moses chose to follow . the Apostals chose to follow God inpsite of imperfections before them . So are we to Follow a: Self disciplined life a True conversion  :

A SUSTAINED DISAPLINED CONVERSTON IN LIFE FOR THIS WORLD . 

Do not look at someone else for your happiness

Your happiness is not in anyone’s obligation, it  is  not in anyone’s possession nor is  it  anyone else’s responsibility to make your happy , you might be out for a great disappointment if are one of those seeks trying out to find to someone eels to give you the happiness you fee you need , it might never happen so , it is better to grow out of it.

Start doing  small things that make you happy besides who else would know your taste other than yourself , time is the essence . the only ground rule to keep in mind is that it does not offend or hurt a second person , 

Your want to play a piano , go right a head  who is stopping  you .

By doing this , it helps to boost up inner confidence , self worth , by doing  this you might come to a point were most of us struggle . we all search for external validation from some else , mostly because we can’t find our start in our self  

If you feel to do something great , write a book , a poem , don’t worry about the language , write it , brig out the magic in you ,

You can do all things with God ‘s help ,,,,  I said  “ you “ can not they will ,

Day dreaming and taking to yourself of never happening   tails  it not going to happen  its time for action

Get up , shake those legs , breath that air , aim at that star , you have it… you don’t’ have to look anywhere else , it right in you , it has been in you because  your maker put it in you  so you don’t have to look any where .else  With God :YOU can conquer mountains …..so go  and Grab on today .

 

True Conscious Maturity

 

When you are alone mind your thoughts

When you are with family and friends mind your tongue

When you are in a Crowd mind you behavior

When you are disrespected mind your temperament

When you are in trouble mind your emotions

When God Bless your Mind your Ego

You Are Your own Author.

 how many times , do we have to fall , to know the basic laws of life. We being human , "the Social Creature" finds an eager to be among the group . the Heartless . 

the Only responsibly we have is to ourselves , because, it all comes to this. That we are asked to the question as to What we did , and what we did not do, and never what others did to us , it does not matter if we were the clown for many others , no one cares , except your immediate family even they have their limitation.

you came alone , and you will leave alone ,so never live a life forgetting yourself. because , only you will be asked as to how did you live your life . and what did you do to the lives that was given in your hands to raise . because your children .only will reflect you .

so never forget the following discipline 

1:know what you want in life,  (principal , not materialistic) 

2 imagine , if your hole life was changed into a Book , and this book , was on a shelf , in some library , and you happen to see the Book, ask yourself ,

a} would you like to read the book , 

b)would you recommend your life "the Book "to anyone in the library to read, 

c) or would you be ashamed or even scared  fearing if someone took the book "your life " to read.

3) know what you what to be in you Book , 

your are the author and editor of your book , but it important to make the changes before the book is published .Go back to the pages , and evaluate yourself , make the corrections. It would be good to start a Journal , for your self evaluation,

 A Journal has many benefits.

1) it helps you to have a self evaluation on a daily basis, 

2) it helps you to know if you are going to the path of the journey of life that you really what to go or end up being .

3)if you are person , who complains to yourself that God is not favoring you, your journal will help have an open eye, of Gratitude, and your will be able to See God even in the smallest things to the Biggest helping you in every way .

it might help you to rebuild yourself , or evaluate yourself . 

Ask yourself everyday or once in a will at least , if you were lying on your grave, today. What kind of a person would like everyone attending your funeral to think of you, and say about in their harts. 

what would your make your "Maker think of YOu" , Well done.....!  or "?"

it all depends , on the how you write your life , it not the tip of pen that matters, it is what you write with it that matters..

My First Love

This was my desire when I was a Child and all though the time I grow up to an adult, but somehow no one cared .I always wanted to be near God because he was the nearest thing to me all throughout my life ,I have had many tough times in my life where the Lord was the only one I had , There were things that happed in my life , that I could not tell anyone  , however my father was my healer and restorer of my sprit all through that time.  Time  and Time again my Father came to my aid ,There is no one like The King  .Jesus The Lord!

There is none like him ,

He is close than a brother

He care's more than a mother

He looks out for us more than a father .

Blood is thicker than water , we say

but , non can describe his affection ,

He saw us then , he saw us now

He will continue to see us till we see him at that shore

Some things are hard to explain ,

The Love of this father ,

is always on top gear .

Some come to him to for a visit

Some come to him as a turrets

but very few come to stay, with him

There are rule , and conditions in his house

but his grace , mercy and love .

Are never in sort supply in his house

😂The Bible reminds us that we must never leave our first love , in the famous Hymn Amassing  Grace we are reminded for a similar line ,

’Twas grace that taught my heart to fear,
And grace my fears relieved;
How precious did that grace appear The hour I first believed."

We should, never go short of the love .- "Both to the father and from the Father" .







Lessons to have

Life if so much more ,  we often take things lightly never understanding that we should be grateful and thankful for the things we have , we take things that we have and what we experience very lightly not knowing that it does not take much time for things to slip from our hands , so we should gather as much as we can in the time we have. 

there is a lesson in every action we encounter in our lives , but to be conscious  and to knot down the points is some where we may be careless, They say a man's lose is a another man's gain , these are a few point that i have forgotten to take note in my life , hoping that it would come to be use for someone to take note off.

1. be conscious of your actions
2. be systematic in things you do
3. time your actions so you have time for everything
4. be more of an observer and less of a speaker 
5. never forget your promise especially the ones you promised to God
6. never forget to go on you knees before God , not only when you need to  but when ever God tells you too.
7. Teach you children about your faith , we are instructed to do so
8. Learn the word of god, it will instruct you.
9. never forget you first desire and will some last a life time
10. prayer for the people who you are glad to have in your life
11. never forget the lessons  that you have leaned in the live The ones that have come to you mind you will soon understand that the greatest lessons  are the much smaller ones in nature but grater in value
12. your greatest battle in not  a battle that you fight with people around you , but the rather the forces within you . -patience in not a pill that you have when ever you like it , it is practised
13. self discipline,... is the greatest discipline and is a rich treasure to have from God in these times.

The real fight

We live in hard times .it makes us wounder if we at verge of the end time .if day of Tribulation is close by. The temptations in life is more with in ourselves. Every battle is to fought in defence of our faith. What was considered as  evil or insain is now considered part of our socity.  We wounder if have the wepons to fight our battles . The enemy might not always be a physical person but more imotional .The real battle to fight is fight we havel with in ourselves.

looking Within Ourselves

Knowing ones own qualities is very essential. Situation's might help open door in discovering ones own strengths and weakness ,those sparkles that the good God has scattered in ourselves .

We have heard of the saying of the team “Born Leaders” , some great men have stated that Great Men are not Born but made , situations sometimes make and  sometimes brake people. Self-evaluation  of oneself i believe to a great extend helps in the making of a person within  which unfortunately is not a days work .

Having an eye open within ourselves  always helps to evaluate us This helps to know how we  tend  to react and act in given situations,which in turns helps to know   more about the person we are. that perhaps we never could imagine us to be,

meditations might be something you would look to opt to accomplish this goal. however it is the Determination that matters 

We tend to look everywhere ,but not within ourselves  for answers to our own questions  , perhaps with out realizing that the picture that needs correction is within us ,We might have had many teachers and we perhapes might have had more students in our lifetime .

The Greatest yet simple truth of the learning of Life is that : One is owns own student and teacher to his or her  own conciseness , no matter how far we tent do ignore it 

We can grow by it , but Never depart from it ,We may be able to leave a lot of things in life but never our self : Never let you Die off before You Do!     

Anger

 

Every head has a tail, so does every man has both extreme extends of behaviour emotions . Anger for some can be considered to a extreme expressive emotions . If someone asked you to choose a person one  with a hot temper are the other with a calm personality  ,without a doubt you would chose the person with  the calm personality. Because we have structured ourselves with the opinion that a Angry  person is always agree or is a tough person to go with ,unless if the other person is very submissive in approach .

Some people are quick to anger for these people it does not take much to get them burning with anger .Some show anger as a sign of self defence they tend to be more repulsive is word. And some get agree when they are sad ,when they are not heard such people react her emotions in words.

 A person observing an angry person should try to take note of what are the situation or circumstances that make the person angry , is simple words one must find out what makes the bell tick.

For an example -:If a angry person after a hard day of work comes back home ,we tend to get away from them for the fear that the angry person might flash his anger over us, under such circumstances we can make sure we cool the room .ect make sure there is plenty of light and nice clean  air coming in the room were the angry person is sitting or standing ,do not use air freshens for this ,since the smell, for some can give a person a headache and a angry person could get more angry. Chose to offer a cold drink ,in the place of a cup of coffee or tea. The air in the room and the cold drink would help to eases the angry person for a little wile once he is cool you will notice him taking off his shoe or opening his upper colour button, releasing his tie  , these are  still not a good  sign to go to talk to the angry person ,but give him or her sufficient time to cool off like say 10 to 15 minutes and rather you going up to the angry person let the person start the conversation with you.

Never talk to the emotions but rather deal with it first and then talk to the person , this is applicable both in grownups as well as in children

Observing human behaviour can be very interesting , it requires the observer  to observe the subject , the surrounding , and the response by the subject  to its surroundings , likewise while in observing an angry person you must keep in mind the angry person , his surroundings ,you might be not able  to change his circumstances . circumstances and surroundings are two different things ,circumstances that refer to the situations of life , while surroundings can also be things like  air , table , chair, water, things in a room  ect (things that surround a person ) . And how does the change or reacts in mood, behaviour ,ect under his or her surroundings .

One cannot get  ride of anger entirely from a person ,we must not do so since anger is a part of human emotion .we can only control it  and relate to it as a normal person as we relate with a hole different world of things .

Anger is natural, and should be approached naturally.  





Learn self control and it will teach you

 

Life is considered as a teacher like no other .There is no limitation to what you can learn from life , but it all depends on the student, who lives to learn the life ,you can either learn something or learn nothing which might  leads to a lot of regret. One can learn subjects like patience, tolerance (self control).

Self control is in its entirety is a mixture of a lot of things or can lead to a lot of things like patience, calmness, have a cool head, learn to listen ex. It is only when one learns to first control once self, does he equip to learn to accept another person, opinion and a lot more.

They say that silence ,at times can be  an act of wisdom it better to be  silent in the middle of an argument. if you are not sure of the whole picture, and  knowing  only part of the taking ,speaking under  such circumstances can at times lengthens a argument or lead to a fight. If it is not your place to speak it is always better not too. Learning to Control once self -temper or once own mouth under such circumstances is quite learning in its self.

 

Learning to retrieve from speaking can be a difficult thing to do ,for some especially for the once who talk a lot. I  have learned to notice that one gets to hear more ,understand more, come to see other peoples point of view ,their thinking more clearly .if one retrieves from talking all the time  .

If you have ever seen a cycatrist  taking a session with a patent, in life or in a movie , you will notice that most of the time the Doctor  just sit there listens to the patent  while the patent goes on talking for hours .the Doctor takes this time to hear out the patent and tries to understand the situation as the patent sees it . before the doctor starts  giving an advice or prognosis

We have a tendency to advice or console a crying person or child. I would sudjust that we deal with the emotions before we start giving lesions on the situation .

Emotions are better dealt with a touch of the heart,  where an advise requires a little of the mind than the heart

If you first show sensitiveness  to others feelings, it eases their emotions or helps to do so. If this is done 85% of your work is done, the person then feels happy that you have valued his or her feelings, and is in position to listen to you in most cases.

Correcting children from there errors takes time. They say this  because a good deal of patience is required to listen .At times parents might find this to be very stupid , but mind you, Something that takes you 10 times explaining a  toddler can be made much easier or might only need 4 times if you show them that you are there to hear them. And in order  to do this The things you would require is  sensitiveness, the mind to hear out an another person than yourself ,a  lot of patience which comes out from a lot Self control Learned in the course  LIFE. So learn the magic as early as you can so you can learn more than you possibly can.



Human Emotion

Human emotion, is no strange phenomena to us.As humans, it is totally impossible to find any one without any emotion; in this world that we live in.
They say that A person with expressive emotions have very little to hide, they tend to be more open, and are seen to be very pleasant most of the time,
Contradictory to the above, people who do not have very expressive emotions then to be more conscious of others, of themselves, and even much more with the surrounding in which they are present, at that point of time. They are mostly likely to paint a smile on their face for the audience, like the smiling face of a clown. People like this are quickly noticed, and the same time very quickly avoided by the public.


It is very hard that, in this modern times we see more people with painted smiles, that a warm smile from the heart
People tend to learn words, and sentences, sounding very constructed in nature, that one you feel that it sounds like a pitched and framed passage, recited to you. We feel irritated some times, when we hear this, thinking Why does he or she have to feel hard to talk to you.

Level of emotions is also very noticeable, basically frames a persons identity and personality, making a person unique. We may tend to forget a person’s name, but, we find ourselves been reminded of the person smile, or other levels of emotion and as if it was magic we suddenly find ourselves remembering the name of the person.

Level of emotions do not necessarily change as we grow older in life, We might laugh the same way we used to 10 or 20 years ago, or even sound the same as we were children to ad lesions and even old age , but it is what makes it trigger. that changes, as we grow, perhaps no . But is generally expected, that as a person grows. his understanding, views, prospects change, so does ones response to emotions change.

Some say that laughter is the best medicine, and helps in lowering blood pressure, and stress. The realities of stress might never change , we might be finding ourselves down to it every day , every moment , as a never ending bond to our back , but “‘Pure ‘ emotions, is like having a cold shower in a hot day. Because you expressed it with your heart.
So Let our Emotions that we reflect openly, be pure and from the Heart!

The only thing Left Standing

Many of us try to be somebody else , because we find other lives more meaningful ,content or too good to be true. But soon realize that we have lost over uniqueness in the process in being some one that we are not.

Creating a legacy, might be too a high goal to attain. Legacy not attained , but reached. The most important thing is how one finishes the race not how he started it. As a small ball of snow that roles it self from the peak, and takes form and momentum as it comes down to a large ball. We change as we go through the valley of life, for the good or for the bad; it makes us stronger or week, but as time go one changes his or her views of understanding, We might have started our Race with enthusiasm, vigor, excitement, and might have come to part in the race were we wonder if there is any excitement left to see , or even think , as you look beyond; wondering ? Is there any excitement for me, Will you ever get to see a rose bloom . It is very simple to say “When the going goes Tough , the tough get going “, the process is not as simple as the words.

I think that when everything falls, The face of God, is the place to seek.

Is it a Virtue or not To be An Elder

Is being ‘An Elder’ considered a virtue or a sin by the Grown up? Is Wisdom considered to be as despair to admit? And is immaturity considered as a virtue in the time that we live in. We hardly have any one been called as An Elder. Or anyone is being proud to be called as An Elder now a days. If you by any means, address, An Elder, As an Elder. The addressee suddenly feels offended, and you get to sense that something you said was wrong!

In the past We spoke of our Elder's in our family greatly and considered them , to be very, unique people, the very title would mean that the person has had a lot of life experience to share, that will help to equip the young. We used to approach them for advice, an opinion, wishful thinking, because IT was understood that an Elder was in many way a Treasure Chest of information and knowledge

The Grownups nowadays, say that the respect to Grownups is diminishing day by day. Interesting! The Grownups have become very friendly than the grownups than yester years, and then tend be to be more of Children in approach and behavior than grownups. How is one supposed to find the difference between children and grownups nowadays if both appear to be the same?

It was suppose to be a virtue, in the olden times to call a grownup a wise person! , this would Portray his experience, his attained knowledge ,his approach to life’s task , and bring about a appearance of a well-groomed man or woman, in stature , speech and would tend to be well versed in lives mysteries , that a second person would find it in his best interest , to approach such a grownup , that he or she might learn from them . So that the ever ending saying of " Learn from your elders , " would not be a forced and pressed upon task but rather be a ,natural behavior in its self. If the Grownups would be more of Grownups they say that they appear to be.

People are feeling bad, in considering themselves to be grownups, people nowadays not only like to look young, which is a very good thing, and must be appreciated. But tend to sound Young , which at times can be annoying and very irritated when they do, in a matter of importance , and when quick action is required from them .

Seldom do we come to see a much groomed grownup, Groomed I mean not in appearance, but in approach, they are so few. That we tend to spot people like them. It is like spotting a signal giraffe in a heard of zebras.

Oh Dear! I hope the Real virtue of true Grownups do not tend to cease to Exit for ever! That the children now days might not come to a point in their lives that they do not know to act as a grownup, When they are expected to be one.
Or seized! to have anyone left to learn from.

If everyone, consider themselves as children.
Where would they go for grownups?
If everyone, consider themselves as pupils of life.
Where do they go, to ask for lives mysteries?

The response is often silenced, and one has no other ways but, goes out to find the answerers to ones questions on his own. Which is, at times very dangerous, and can even end up have strong consequences. Life is learned the harsh way, principals, morals, values and ethics appear to be mere fables to our ears. Because of lack of our grownup being Grownup, learning is done how one potteries his life, each going in his own ways, living the life in the way one finds to his description what is good and comfortable to him,

We all know the story of the 8 blind men who went to see an Elephant; each one had his own view, his own description. Not clear. Contradictory to ones view‘s, resulting to argument’s that never end.
But what if there was yet another blind man to guide these 8 blind men, they might have their views, but they would always remember the man that guided them, and in length of time agree to their Guide,

Eventually we all learn the principals of life in the hard way or self way, but if had Grownups to guide us along the ways, we would soon see the light of things and see that it is important to become a grownup for our children ,that they may be grownup for their own children in the future.
It is very important that The parcel is passed.Every time, and we must make sure we do not lose it's gift. in the process.
The Gift’s OF Wisdom.

Basic observable human psychology

Human is one of the wonders of god’s creation. A single person is in its totality is not even, one by virtue, but combined ingredient of several people. When a child is born in this world. The birth of a single identity is not the only thing that has happened. But the legacy of the ancestral trends is being brought to our eyes. And the possibility for a yet to be made legacy, is expected out of a 2 ounce life.

Science say that the mind of the person is an amazing computer, our mind is capable to record and learn 38 languages and be a master of them and speak them as it was our mother tong. Many times we take life as a simple breath of life. But this creation ‘the Human’ is simply a wonder in it self.

When a child is born, it responds to sound rather than sight, it is said that the voice recognition is a part of the child, even when the child is in the mother’s womb. It responds to the voice; sounds that the mother perceives in her environment and can even react to it. Medicine has not been able to tell, how? Is the mother capable to bring back a its child back to consciousness even under very strong sedatives and Anastasia. The child, in what ever age or in any stage life, recognizes its mother’s voice and responds to it even under subconscious state. This is simply a wonder in its self.

If we can teach a dog to stand and role and fetch a stick, I believe you can expect much more from an infant, except run, since the spinal development is very slow in human than animals. But let me bring your attention to a simple observation, if you have ever seen a kitten, it runs after and catches moving objects; same thing can be observed in infants when they start walking with their knees, you will notice that the child observes the moving object.

Let say your 3to5 month child is crying, and its not hungry; try folding and opening your fingers to it, you will see that that child observes it as it was a moving object, it does not understand that your finger movement has something to do with your writs, your arm, your shoulder or your brain, it only under stands the finger moving. And thinks that it has a life of its own, which appears to be a matter of grate fascination to the child and observes it with great curiosity

It is a wonder! That it was these simple instant, observation, that is even seen among great scientist in their early stages of their inventions or exploring worlds wonders.

The initial instant reaction to sound, movement, gives you an idea; of what the child is used to in its environment to the observes, if you are an observer.

Gradually and Slowly next the child starts to show a great an interest to bright colors, this interest is seen to stay in the child till adolescences , latter, dims, and later comes back to the person in old age. Children in infancy are very direct and open to emotions and thoughts, latter under the environment it is restricted or learns to control emotions like anger. Ext. but towards old age , we can notice, that these emotions service up in such a way that An observer might see more of a child in a 70 year old than a grown up. That could have been seen in that same person when he was in the 40 or even to his or hers 60s

This change of going back to the child, depends up on varies factors, you can not stop the process from happening but you can only slower down its phase. It is said that every one is suppose to have a hobby or engage in an activity. It is said that an idle mind is the devils workshop. You must not let the mind sleep off of what it is called as. .But if the minds start to sleep off, it will not want to wake up. Or would be difficult to bring back the person to a more controlled and conscious state as before.

Reading is a good exercise; I believe that by being alert and having your mind occupied in an activity that requires logical thought, ect might even slower the process of entering into alcimerces

If you notice early stages of alcimers condition in grownup , never lose hope, make them read books loudly. Not with their mind never by the mind , tell them to read as they are writing and to read loudly as loudly so that they can hear their voice and what they are reading. ask questions, make them tell you the dates of your anniversary, birthday dates, make them name the names of family member as often as possible, making them do simple math’s like addition, multiplication and logical thinking test questions can be very powerful tools ,it is like putting fertilizer to a plant. if you see them telling you about their childhood more than your life now, do not get angry. It is hard for them to remember. What happened? Two mints ago, because you must understand a small part of their mind is asleep. Our attempt should be to prolong the time for the rest of the mind to sleep off. It is an every day, journey, an every day learning and relearning for them, and so is it for us as well.

Remember, every life is a circular process, from childhood, to adolescences, to an adult and back to the child. Perhaps it was through this process that we developed the concepts of parental in stings, child and finally adult in stings in human behavior.